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What should I do about my financial situation?

I am not getting money from the Veterans Association, after all, for my dad dying (and mom dying.)

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I thought work was something easy to toss on the side, something that teenagers in high school do who are getting ready to go to college themselves!

I also thought that more jobs would pay enough for an adult who only works to support themselves to live in an apartment and own a car, comfortably/easily.

Reasons I Would Not Work Now:
1. My pills (diabetes/cholesterol/schizophrenia) make me tired.
2. I don't live in my own house but a group home:
… 1. I don't have my own home.
… 2. I don't have my own bathroom where I can leave my stuff and just jump in the shower.
… 3. I don't have my own kitchen!
… 4. If I store food in the refrigerator or freezer, it will get stolen and no one will care.
… 5. It costs $1,100/month, and if I work the government won't pay. An apartment can be like $600/month.
… 6. The food is slow to come, breakfast can be as late as 11 A.M.
… 7. You can't chose your food, and this isn't good enough to me and bad for my diabetes. I have to buy my own food and don't get much money from the government. I will have some money from my dad but would prefer to focus on building a better future for myself than splurging living in the group home, like because I can't get groceries and cook all the time.
3. I don't have a car, so I have a lot less time.
4. I do want to either be a classical musician or get a college degree. Without such an asset, I can't make as much money, neither, I find maybe. I am going to ask Ticket to Work, though, maybe they can find something higher paying with less hours that I like enough.

I am trying to find another place like a nursing home but that is supported by the government. I can have my own room here again now indefinitely but maybe am supposed to find a new situation for some reason. I do want to be a classical musician or get a college degree, though.

Some Plans and Backup Plans for My Future:
1. be a classical violinist in an orchestra and maybe play some chamber music or solo work (still practicing and already age 35 though, though it's an old dream..)
2. the creative/performing arts / entertainment
3. academic college degree
4. high paying college degree
5. Criminal Justice

I forgot my other idea is to get in a movie or be a model to support myself and further myself. I wanted to resort to this when I had to come/stay home from college in 2006. I'm not sure if my parents would support my return.


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Christina Barrett
½ American ½ European-ish Asian

Re: What should I do about my financial situation?

Why would you get money from the veterans association? You are a full grown human adult.

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I was a dependent when my dad died and diagnosed before a certain age, like 18.

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Christina Barrett
½ American ½ European-ish Asian

Re: What should I do about my financial situation?

That money could be spent on defending America, not gerbils and rollerblades.

You are putting America directly at risk from a Russian invasion, you do know that right?

Re: What should I do about my financial situation?

Or smoking fucking pot all day and playing video games, you shut the fuck up as well retard and get a fucking job.

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Thank you Gwnyc1, always nice to hear from you


Lol I am kidding, you are blocked.

Re: What should I do about my financial situation?

Fucking snowflake pussy, suck it up, begging old ladies for money on here is deplorable.

Re: What should I do about my financial situation?

I dont beg, I ask nicely and when she refuses I get violent, actually. Fucking idiot.

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Your too lazy to even go on twitch and get nerdy faggots to simp a few bucks your way in exchange for showing your hairy ass in a one piece thong swimsuit.

Re: What should I do about my financial situation?

Great idea

Melting down over top boy

Re: What should I do about my financial situation?

Why pretending that's not your sock? Your improper usage of contractions is a dead giveaway.

Relax, faggot.

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Melting down over top boy

Re: What should I do about my financial situation?

I already had you pegged even before you posted a reply to yourself. Is English not your first language or do you have some other explanation for your abominable communication skills?

Relax, faggot.

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Lol my typing skills blow.

Melting down over top boy

Re: What should I do about my financial situation?

Don't create socks to say things you are too big of a pussy to say yourself. That's a meltdown, and a cowardly one at that.

Relax, faggot.

Re: What should I do about my financial situation?

You would think that after the amount of times it's been pointed out to him that he would have learned the difference between your and you're

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nemesis said... You would think that after the amount of times it's been pointed out to him that he would have learned the difference between your and you're
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He's incapable of learning. I would have let him go on and explode into another mega massive meltdown as he became more confident nobody knew who he was and started going after women, but let's be honest here, it was obvious from the start it was him and thus only a matter of time until someone else pointed it out.

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Relax, faggot.

Re: What should I do about my financial situation?

Hush sock.

Melting down over top boy

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Friar Fuck said... Hush sock.
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I know you're embarrassed, but suck it up and walk it off. In the future, don't use socks to attack people like a fucking coward when you clearly don't have the balls to do it under your own name. That's how you avoid these awkward situations. Of course, at this point it's unlikely anyone could think any less of you than they already do, so you may as well just do what thou wilt. Everyone does enjoy laughing at your stupidity, so at least you'll be of some service to this site. Just remember, nobody is laughing with you when you do this.

Relax, faggot.

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Black Winter said... I know you're embarrassed, but suck it up and walk it off. In the future, don't use socks to attack people like a fucking coward when you clearly don't have the balls to do it under your own name. That's how you avoid these awkward situations. Of course, at this point it's unlikely anyone could think any less of you than they already do, so you may as well just do what thou wilt. Everyone does enjoy laughing at your stupidity, so at least you'll be of some service to this site. Just remember, nobody is laughing with you when you do this.
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Really, this sounds like an overreaction, but whatever my friend.

Melting down over top boy

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Friar Fuck said... Really, this sounds like an overreaction, but whatever my friend.
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Stop being a pussy, mayne.

Relax, faggot.

Re: What should I do about my financial situation?

unless your late father was in the military when he died, the VA has NO responsibility for anything. why do you labor under the fiction that you have any valid claims to such a thing? IF he had VA life insurance then that's a different outcome. but, no, I guess he forgot to do that. was your mother in the military? same standard: no service= no VA responsibility. all moot point since you're not MINOR CHILD. turn 18 and the $$$ go bye-bye.

1. find a lawyer who deals in disability cases: both mental and physical, because you are coming and going posterchild for both problems.

2. if you manage to fail in this and inevitably you will, then contact your state-appointed guardian ad litem or case worker and have them start the process.

3. move back to florida. i suggest you "GUILT" relatives into taking you back in. maybe they will accept rent,food, upkeep expenses from your disability check.

4. invent time machine, go back before this royal-flush of an abortion you have concocted for yourself, and never leave florida for ohio.

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^^^ this is sound advice @Christina^^^

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Yes, Christina is well known for her ability follow advice, so i'm sure she'll have no problem doing so now.

Relax, faggot.

Re: What should I do about my financial situation?

Well, my dad died from poison he drank in the Marines during Vietnam.

I might ask if I can get some legal action, but I found some possible budget assisted living.. at least it may not be run by people in their 20s or as a side job.

I lived with my parents before, and I had to take medication for the mentally ill. I used some of my SSI to pay them for rent.

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Christina Barrett
½ American ½ European-ish Asian

Re: What should I do about my financial situation?

Everything you say is wrong. Time for you to grow up or check out.

Relax, faggot.

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You have had it rough Christina, but you need to stop playing the victim card all the time, it gets tiring. Others have it difficult too and while some can fit into the system better, you need to stop using what you feel you can't or don't want to do as an excuse to complain about things.

Get out and do something and get into a socialized environment. You claimed Popeyes hired you and quit before even starting.

We are not professional counselors on here and you need to see someone who can "actively" help and assist you in a vocation and with your emotional needs.

At the end of the day, only you can lift yourself up by your bootstraps, others can only give you the tools.

Norman! What did you put in my tea?

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It's too bad, my psychologist might not know what to do, but I did just apply to Ticket to Work in Opportunities for Ohioans With Disabilities. Let's see if there's anything there, so I don't have to just stay in a group home, something that makes a like $50K so I can have a car.

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Christina Barrett
½ American ½ European-ish Asian

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If you are really serious about doing something positive with your life, this Ticket to Work in Opportunities for Ohioans With Disabilities is a good first step in the right direction. First see what they can set up for you. Then, focus only on that.

Forget about the apartment for a while. You need a job and a savings account first. Forget about the $50K and the car. Most people have to work for years in order to have that. Many people never make that much money.

People keep telling you that you have to be realistic. You are in no position to move , land a high paying job, and buy a car.
I would assume that a college girl like you, would know that.

You asked a pretty question; I've given you the ugly answer.
Fasten Your Seatbelts….
It's Going To Be A Bumpy Night!

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I feel like Christina is using an optimistic approach to what she wants, but not being realistic about her situation at the same time and it becomes more about delusion.

Its the attitude and approach that is key.

Norman! What did you put in my tea?

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I think she's messing with us.

You asked a pretty question; I've given you the ugly answer.
Fasten Your Seatbelts….
It's Going To Be A Bumpy Night!

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Well, if she's not well in the head, then perhaps, so I give her the benefit of the doubt.

Yet at the same time, she's not incapable of using the internet and posting online and she's not a retard, so really the ball is all in her court now and how she chooses to handle it.

Norman! What did you put in my tea?

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If Ryan can get acting parts, surely Christina can as well.

Melting down over top boy

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The difference with Ryan is that he is an established child star.
Her only appearances have been her You Tube videos, produced and directed by her.
I don't believe she takes direction from anyone else.

You asked a pretty question; I've given you the ugly answer.
Fasten Your Seatbelts….
It's Going To Be A Bumpy Night!

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Lol

Melting down over top boy

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Cars cost a lot to run too. You don't have enough for the food you want to eat Christina.

Is there a good public transport system around where you live? You will need to make good use of that if so and if it can work around a vocation for you, then that will be the first step to take and then work up from there.

Your psychologist can't live your life for you and you would know by instinct if they are they the right counselor for you. If not, look at changing.

Norman! What did you put in my tea?

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Aw, I don't have to always be too expensive, though, now.

Yea, the bus runs around the clock mostly or in many cases, but it still takes time. I need the right jacket, too, so my hood doesn't fly off. etc.

I have a young and kinda spunky psychologist. I could get an older one who knows of the pains of life, more.

Well, maybe I will make an acting audition or 2 tonight or get contacted with good news from Ticket to Work, maybe something involving classical music. I could work in an office.

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Christina Barrett
½ American ½ European-ish Asian

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What has your jacket got to do with anything?

Yes, I think in your case you need a more jaded and experienced counselor that has been around the block.

I feel you may need to keep your musical aspects for a hobby for now, unless you know you are talented enough to land a decent paying gig for what you are capable of.

Norman! What did you put in my tea?

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If I wanted to switch to singing, I could, but I think I might make it with violin. I'm starting at the beginning and just playing through, during the practice sessions, and using a tuner for each song so far, just going through it once decently. So, a good passion, still.

Yea.. I can see about what other counselors there are.

I get miserable at the bus without warmer leg coverings and a jacket where the hood ties around your head rather than not tie, but I'm still too broke/poor.

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Christina Barrett
½ American ½ European-ish Asian

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Well, you have have more skill than I when it comes to music, which is zilch. Mastering the violin is going to take a lot of hard work though, unless you are a natural.

Can you get to thrift shops nearby to look for a suitable coat?

Norman! What did you put in my tea?

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I heard you could get free used clothes at churches, probably though. Good idea, I might try that, just I have kinda been relaxing at home for today and maybe tomorrow. Thursday, I will probably use the treadmill at the gym and pick up some food at Wal-Mart.

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Christina Barrett
½ American ½ European-ish Asian

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See what you can muster. You may find something really nice and suitable and if you can get it donated to you, all the better.

Norman! What did you put in my tea?

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Christina Barrett
½ American ½ European-ish Asian

Re: What should I do about my financial situation?

and a jacket where the hood ties around your head rather than not tie, but I'm still too broke/poor.

The Dollar Tree sells knit hats.

You asked a pretty question; I've given you the ugly answer.
Fasten Your Seatbelts….
It's Going To Be A Bumpy Night!

Re: What should I do about my financial situation?

Okay, thanks.

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Christina Barrett
½ American ½ European-ish Asian

Re: What should I do about my financial situation?

you need a PSYCHIATRIST who is a licensed MEDICAL DOCTOR and NOT a psychologist who is just someone too stupid to get into medical school.

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My psychiatrist didn't do much, and I'm getting a new one since this one is changing jobs or leaving. I talk to her over the phone.

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Christina Barrett
½ American ½ European-ish Asian

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there are so many things wrong with this Christina

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You tell him, Del.

Re: What should I do about my financial situation?

Del Shannon?
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