Sex and Dating : Advice

So last year I went out with a lady I met online. I get to her place and I notice she has an obvious limp. When speaking to her I immediately realize things are a bit off. Turns out she was in a car accident 20 years ago that nearly killed her and left her with some permanent TBI. She doesn't drive, works at a business within walking distance. She smokes menthols which smell terrible. We went to a fast food restaurant where we got to know a bit more about each other. I had to repeat several details a few time because she simply didn't retain them. Then she had me drive to a friends house where she aparrently borrowed $50. We then went to a bar she frequents and sat herself in front of a slot machine for about 45 minutes and blew all the money as I watched from nearby a bit uncomfortably. When she ran out of money she asked me to give her some, I declined. Then we played pool which she smoked me at all 3 games.

Now the gambling makes me uneasy. I don't gamble myself. Borrowing from a friend to gamble seems worse and asking me for cash to gamble on a first date is a big red flag. On the other hand I learned a bit more about her for watching her play the video slots. Her fingers raced across the screen so fast I couldn't hardly tell what she was doing most of the time. Between that and how she played pool I know that while the brain injury took some stuff from her that she had to have been formidably intelligent before it happened. After that we went back to her apartment Which was immaculatly clean.We sat on her patio and she smoked several more of the nasty menthols. During that time she strongly hinted that she would like to suck my dick. However I was not sure how involved I wanted to get with her issues so I made an excuse and got out of there. Later I sent a text that said I was not interested in a 2nd date and told her why and about which behaviors made a poor impression.

It has been a year since then. But now she has called me twice out of the blue within a month. Both short calls amounting to "Hey, its *name* what are you doing?" I tell her. "Oh, ok bye." Thing is I am horny. It has been a while. I am still leary of starting a relationship with such a person yet I think I could get laid rather easily here. Should I call her and give her a second chance?

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my advice is stop creating stupid stories. this never happened.

Unfortunately it did.

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"Please vote to preserve the unique character of Warren…" - Robert Duvall

another lie. stop it.

What dude. I don't know you or need your ****.

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"Please vote to preserve the unique character of Warren…" - Robert Duvall

don’t lie.

Just **** off

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"Please vote to preserve the unique character of Warren…" - Robert Duvall

stop telling lies.

PE stop

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Who is PE?

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"Please vote to preserve the unique character of Warren…" - Robert Duvall

tl;dr

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How Do I get a signature?

Do you think that admitting that reading something shorter than the average newspaper article is too difficult for you is somehow an endorsement of your intelligence?

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"Please vote to preserve the unique character of Warren…" - Robert Duvall

Anyone have any real advise?

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yeah. quit telling lies.

Not sure who you are or why you are being a dick but I will just ignore you.

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i’m a dick cuz I called u out for being a liar?

Turns out she was in a car accident 20 years ago that nearly killed her and left her with some permanent TBI. She doesn't drive, works at a business within walking distance. She smokes menthols which smell terrible.

she sounds like filmboards material

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Is she mentally disabled?

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Aside from the addiction behavior and memory issues I don't think so. In some ways she is very sharp As I said she was able to visually process and manipulate the video slot machine faster than I could follow and she played pool like a hustler.

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"Please vote to preserve the unique character of Warren…" - Robert Duvall

Well, she is a bit like how you are when your blood sugar is low.

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"Please vote to preserve the unique character of Warren…" - Robert Duvall

If you need advice then they aren't for you. Life is too short to stay with someone you're not compatible with. When you find someone you're meant to be with you won't need to ask for advice. It'll be second nature for you to want/make the relationship work.

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Yes but I could get laid real easy. That is a damn attractive incentive and she ain't exactly hard on the eyes either. But I am not normally the type to take advantage. It's just that after she called I can't get the idea out of my head.

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"Please vote to preserve the unique character of Warren…" - Robert Duvall

So what exactly do you need avice with?

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Just use your hand.

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Private Eye to the stars.

She sounds like she's sharp enough to kill you or roofie you and take your money and give it to the slot machine. Find somebody more stable.

Or tell yourself YOLO and go for it. Just keep an eye on your drink and don't fall asleep at her place.

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